You ask for something and you get rejected. Sounds familiar?

If you are in the “self help” world, you just “motivate yourself” and “persist” and go and ask some more people. If you get rejected again, you “don’t give up” and you “walk the extra mile”.

Before you do all that, please think what is the cost for the other person to TOTALLY ignore you. If it is bordering zero, may be you have to first work on your identity and then go back to making requests.


2 thoughts on “Rejected…

  1. PC says:

    Hmmm…. I think it would be useful to differentiate between ignoring ‘you’ and ignoring ‘your idea or proposal’. This is a classic parenting challenge: judge and evaluate the action or idea of your child, but don’t judge the child.

  2. Veena says:

    Excellent thought.! Absoultely true.. many a times people tend to ignore your ideas based on the previous experiences they had with you so a success history would surely help.

    and as PC suggests lot of difference between ignoring you and your idea 🙂 Point to ponder.

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